No longer held captive by…the need for validation

Having a false

sense of security

in the opinion

of others,

is an intentional attempt

to try to live our life

pleasing the created

instead of the creator.

yearning for acceptance

that only comes from

His place of peace.

the constant battles

that play out in

our own thoughts,

limits our ability

to clearly distinguish

between sanity and insanity.

the self-contained

ego-driven

willingness

to remain

in distress

limits our gift

of freedom.

I am learning, it’s not a get “fixed quick” healing process, I have to be willing to do the hard work necessary in order to renew my mind. Which includes, limiting the opinions of others and the access of them speaking into my life from a place of their “own” needs being met. Honoring my space and upholding healthy boundaries is imperative.

~ Denise

“So if the son sets you free, you will be free indeed”. – John 8:36

No longer held captive…by yesteryear

Stripped…

from the constraints of

the accomplishments

from yesteryear

no longer holding onto

who or what

I used to be.

Stripped…

from the constant pull

of others

who would like

me to remain

in their self-serving

box of limitations.

Stripped…

from the

false fulfillment

of

value

identity

and

worth

from

a place

outside

of myself.

Stripped…

~Denise💗

No longer held captive by…over-thinking

Train your thoughts

to turn from the

self-depriving,

time consuming,

over-thinking,

words that continue to replay

continually in your own mind.

Free yourself

from what you

could’ve

would’ve

should’ve

said.

indulging

in the cares

and concerns

of what others think,

is self-contained

punishment.

Free yourself

from allowing those

racing thoughts

to run carelessly

throughout each corner

of your own mind.

Free yourself…

you have the authority

to command,

anxiety to be still.

~ Denise

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose mind is steadfast, because they trust in you.”

– Isaiah 26:3

No longer held captive by…fear

She is called my beloved.

intentionally…

strategically…

unapologetically…

fighting for her freedom.

through the self-defeating,

misrepresentation of an

unwelcomed

unannounced visitor,

who goes by the name of…

“the former self-doubting version” of herself.

she sits quietly

crouched between

“who I used to be”…

and

“who I am now”…

as she anticipates the arrival of,

“who I’m becoming”.

she is called my beloved.

endlessly…

evolving…

and transforming

from the lies that lay

dormant between the confines

of her own mind,

and other’s restrictive insecurities.

she is called my beloved.

courageously crafting her next move,

determined to win this battle gracefully…

she is called my beloved.

step by step,

she painfully

pulls back each layer,

and exposes

the truth…

unmasked.

she is called my beloved.

her new identity,

outweighs the former entanglement of despair.

she is called my beloved.

branded with the heart of a lion…

she fearlessly arises.

She is called my Beloved,

and I am she.

xoxo – Denise

Words that are silenced, are lethal secrets to destroy your soul. Speak your truth.💗

No longer held captive by…loneliness

Deep wounds can begin to form when we feel forgotten. We begin to ask questions such as, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why was I not included?”

Feelings of being forgotten…

if we allow ourself to remain in that state of despair, you will begin to spiral into a dark place which allows depression and isolation to form walls around you.

In the past, I was very familiar with the lies of feeling “forgotten” and today I

want you to know that you are important, valued, loved and seen.

Not just for what you can do for others, but for simply being you.

Those that love you, may not even know that you are struggling.

I encourage you today, to reach out to someone and let them know that you need them…and if they don’t respond with grace….then reach out to the next person…or the next one…or the next one…until you find someone who is really there for you.

You are not alone, you are not forgotten. Don’t give up.

~ xoxo Denise

“Don’t fear because I am with you, don’t be afraid for I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will hold you up and keep a firm grip on you”.

-Isaiah 41:10

No longer held captive by…isolation

I lost a close friend this week.

My heart hurts as I battled with thoughts of “why didn’t I call her on Friday”, “why wasn’t I there to check on her when she needed me?”

Then in a quiet voice, God quickly reminded me that HE was there.

In an instant I began to celebrate all of our deep conversations about God and how much she loved him, our laughing at the silliest of things until we cried hysterically. The dinners, the kids parties, our funny dance moves, the cries on each other’s shoulders and the bear hugs that reminded each other that no matter what, everything was gonna be alright.

This loss, is devastating on so many levels especially for her sweet children, spouse, family and close friends.

But in the midst of these tears, more than ever I want to encourage you to reach out for help if you need it, your not alone and isolation is a breeding ground for lies, deception and defeat.

Reach out and tell someone…

anyone…that you need help.

I guarantee you, that you are not forgotten, and there is hope.💗

~ Denise xoxo

No longer held captive…by depression

They call her Joy.

she tries to hide in darkness…

but when you find her…

in the most inconspicuous places…

introduce yourself…

treasure her…

and never let her go.

xoxo Denise

The Joy of the Lord is my strength. -Nehemiah 8:10

No longer held captive…by rejection

You are my masterpiece

Created in my perfect image

There is none like you

I made sure of that

Uniquely crafted

Genuinely created for greatness

You are wanted

Never rejected

Loved beyond measure.

His love endures forever – Psalm 118:2

xoxo Denise

No longer held captive…by anxiety

Every broken heart

cries out to this earth for its healing…

You won’t find it

in your unending need

for approval…

those aren’t the places that I intended for you to seek truth…

look to me my daughter

there you will find your worth.

Hear my whisper?

Draw near to me…

like a firefly to its flame.

bring me your alabaster box..

and break its chains that surround you.

So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. ~ John 8:36

No longer held captive…secrets

being held captive

entangles truth

restricts freedom

and causes heartache

to follow you

uncover the darkness

shine light on every lie

of the enemy

that is keeping you bound

release yourself from its grip

and run free

So if the Son sets you free, you are free indeed. – John 8:36